Dating Tips and Tricks

What happens for the first time when a girl meets a boy? It can be either attraction, or revulsion or neutral reaction. When a boy meets a girl, he may find her beautiful attractive, charming. Good speaker, intelligent or having some quality that may attract the boy to the girl. That is like a magnetic pull. Many people fall in love in the beginning because they found the shape of nose to be very cute or the laughter very attractive. During dating, when you are asking for a date, that magnetic pull has to be present in the beginning. Without that pull no date will get finalized. If you feel revulsion, you will surely not agree for the date. How to develop the magnetic attraction so that you get the first date? Things can go forward only after you get the first date. The question here is how to develop magnetic attraction. Surly, you do not know about what quality of yours may attract the girl or boy towards you. So the best bet is it develop all the qualities and eliminate all those qu...

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 We’ve all been on a date before and wondered whether or not you should or should not do or say something. As much as we would like to deny it, there are some unwritten dating ‘rules’ that everyone should follow…which will make everyone, male and female, much more comfortable and content with a date. First, there are some things everyone should do on dates. There is the obvious first impression. Try to look your best and be punctual. No one wants to date an irresponsible slob. To go the other way, flatter and compliment your date on the way they look and the things they wear. People tend to put in a lot of effort for a date, so being told that they look nice is always good to hear. Have fun when dating. Be interested and interesting. Make sure to tell someone if you are not interested in dating them again. Being lied to and hopes kept alive is an evil and malicious act. If you don’t want to see them again, let them know that in the nicest possible way you can. Date the type of peop...

Dating after a divorce is tough. You don’t quite know where to start so here are a few internet dating mistakes and their solutions. 1. Too much too soon So you have been ploughing through those endless profiles on your internet dating site and have come up with someone who interests you. There has been an exchange of emails. He sounds fun and witty and you begin to look forward to his messages. You find yourself getting up earlier in the morning just to log on whilst you drink your coffee to see if he has sent a response to your latest remarks. During the day you compile witty replies in your head and suggestive lines to throw his way. This has gone on for a couple of weeks and he suddenly asks if he can call you. Your chest expands; you are really excited and arrange a time. Now you are curled up in your favourite chair waiting for the call. Guess what it goes well, the same light banter, his voice is not what you expect but that is OK. You talk for an hour. This b...

 Throwing manually into the realms of online dating can be a chilling proposition.  Sure, there are scarier things, like being system on a blind date by your cousin Cletus and decision manually across the plan from a hairy monster of a persona who likes to amass earwax and has a pet boa constrictor.  The online dating world cant be all bad; at slightest you have some idea of who youre setting manually up with. There are all sorts of different online dating sites out on the web, from general, large-scale sites to sites connecting people who have the same particular interest, like a dating site only for dog-lovers.  There are also online special ads, also through craigslist or other personals sites, which are, if anything, a little more hit and neglect than the online dating sites. Most dating sites work under the same general principles.  You station a profile about yourself, regularly including a photograph and as greatly information as you want about who you ar...

Maybe you just have met a great women, she is  single, beautiful, and sexy and is deeply in love  with you. She's perfect for you but... you are  not her first love. Can she love you more then she loved her first  man? Was that guy better than you in bed?  Does  she think of him when is making love with you?  These are the question which crosses your mind  over and over again.  Many people think that the first love is most  powerful in all life time. All of as have heard  the words "you can never forget your first love".  Is this true? I have talked with four women, friends of mine  about this subject. All of them are married with  a different man than the one they have loved for  the first time. I had a great surprise; all of  them have told me almost the same things:  First love is mostly passion - second love is  much deeper. When a woman loves for the first time she thinks  that that man i...

 For the uninitiated, a 'quirkyalone' is a person who enjoys being single. Although not averse to the idea of a relationship, they would rather stay alone than date just for the sake of dating. The concept originally began as a personality type. Among a diverse group of people who identified with it (married, single, divorced, or widowed) soon grew to become something more. A new, articulated set of ideas on relationships expressed through vocabulary: quirkyalone, quirkyslut, and quirkytogether (the quirkyalone way of being in a long term romantic relationship). Quirkyalone is not anti-love. It is pro-love. It is not anti-dating. It is anti-compulsory dating. Although quirkyalones enjoy solitude, and sometimes even need and crave it, they are not loners. They typically have a strong network of friends and most place a high premium on friendship. Some have even been known to bring friends on dates!  They are part of a growing population in our society who live full and fun live...

 First dates can be really stressful especially when you’re the one planning it. You’d want to make it as simple as the conventional “dinner and a movie” setting but this is often considered a bad first date idea. You may feel uncomfortable sitting in front of your date while eating because you’ll be conscious with the way you chew your food, the way you speak, the way you sit, and anything else in between. Letting out a big smile might show some of the food stuck between your teeth or while talking, huge saliva might spray from your mouth. These scenarios are major turn-offs. First dates are supposed to be about first impressions due to the fact that this may determine if there is a possibility of a second date. You have to avoid making your first date a movie date because this eliminates the crucial ingredient of communication. You’ll be sitting side by side silently in the movie theater and your date might think that you’re not interested in knowing her. Also, avoid first dates ...

 Let us go straight to the point to all these small talks and focus on the question that slices into the very hub of man’s survival. Bad boys or nice guys? This is truly a matter of personality choice. Each has its own crowd of admirers, where every woman is ready to defend their dearly beloved partners. However, the debates seemed to never cease. This is because women never have clear distinction as to what type of mate would they rather prefer. And after a long scurrilous deliberation and poll voting, it seems that the choice between bad boys and nice guys are endless discussions. Sounds impossible? Read on. According to survey polls online, nearly 30% of the women respondents have stated that the personality matters most. Though, it was not clearly identified what kind of personality that these women would want from the guys. But there are some reports that the nice guys are apparently unappealing to most women. Why is this so? What could possibly cause this evident weakening ma...

 This gentleman is now involved in a permanent relationship with somebody he loves very much.  She is gorgeous and probably the smartest female he has ever met.  But, before he met his mate he of course dated like everybody else; and he estimates that he probably dated, in some form or other, 100's of women. He dated beautiful women, sexy women, ugly women, smelly women, classy women. prostitutes, young women, older women, you name it.  He made love to most of them, had one night stands and relationships that lasted for as long as 15 years. The funny thing is that you can always tell how a date is going to turn out within the first ten minutes. It is probably true that so-called speed dating works, because within the first couple of minutes into a date your mind decides and tells you:  1. WOW, now this is what I have been waiting for all my life.  or:  2. Well, she's got a nice body, but for the rest....  or:  3. Got to get rid of this one pr...

 A quick foray into a bar or a nightclub reveals some of the major shortcomings of looking for romance in such places.  A combination of booming bass and shrieking laughter bombards you aurally, while a potent mix of cigarette smoke and spilt beer assails your olfactory senses.  Eventually, amidst the human chaos of the locale, a figure from the opposite side of the room piques your interest.  You fight your way through the crowd in the general direction of him/her and suddenly find yourself screaming in their ear because of the aforementioned noisy surroundings.  The best case finds you exchanging hastily-scrawled phone numbers with the other person or following them out the door, while the worst case finds you feeling rejected and dejected.  Even the “middle” options are less than desirable; often, the person that attracted you physically does not do the same mentally or emotionally, and you’re stuck at an impasse with a minimum of things to talk about. T...

 The most successful businesses make it a regular part of conducting business by asking their customers and suppliers for feedback.  They want to know how they can improve both their products and services.  They want their customers to find it a pleasure to work with them.  They have a goal of ‘delighting’ their customers.  The only way they can do this is by asking for direct input.  The encourage complaints.  You should do this too.  Ask your friends for feedback about you.  Are you boastful?  Are you fun?  Are you shy?  Are you easy to get along with?  This isn’t about finding our flaws or bashing your ego.  This is getting a good look at who you are.  I’ve already discussed taking your inventory to get a better look at yourself.  Now, it’s time to bring in others to help you. You can do this informally or formally.  You can ask your friends to let you know what your three greatest strengths are and ...

 Did you know that two out of five single people in the UK now use some kind of on line dating service? That's 40% of all singles! Unfortunately, the percentage of these people who actually find a real romance as a direct result of their site memberships is very low - probably less than 10%.  Why is this? Well, it's true that some sites are better than others; they have more traffic, they are better to navigate; they just 'work' whilst others just don't. But what really matters is how you use a site when you actually sign-up to one. Take my word for it, unless you take the five simple steps that I'm about to outline, you may as well do something more productive with your time than join a singles site. What I'm about to say may sound obvious and rather simplistic, but you'd be surprised at how many people don't bother doing the 'obvious'. So here goes...  1. Create A Great Profile. This is the most important aspect of your dating site experien...

 Many people find it stressful to go on a first date. You feel under pressure to impress, you feel that you are under scrutiny and your faults will be exposed, you feel that some chance remark you make could be enough to ruin the entire evening. The effect of all these things can be greatly reduced by boosting your confidence. If you give out self confidence, this will be more attractive to your date and you'll enjoy the evening more. So how can you make yourself more confident? Having confidence is just a state of mind, and it's more a matter of what "stories" you're telling yourself than it is about any good qualities or skills you might have. By this I mean that you keep telling yourself you are one of those people that are always the centre of attention. You know the type - the person that everyone is looking at and that everyone wants to talk to. If you tell yourself you are that kind of person then you are more likely to become that kind of person. So pictur...

 This has gotten so bad the U.S. embassy has issued alerts to warn people about this.  Here are the basics from the embassy. United States citizens should be alert to attempts at fraud by persons claiming to live in Russia professing friendship, romantic interest, and /or marriage intentions over the Internet. Typically, once a connection is made, the correspondent asks the U.S. citizen to send money or credit card information for living expenses, travel expenses, or "visa costs". Sometimes, the correspondent notifies the American citizen that a close family member, usually the mother, is in desperate need of surgery and begins to request monetary assistance. Scams have even advanced to the point where the U.S. citizen is informed of a serious or fatal accident to the correspondent and the “family” asks for money to cover hospital or funeral costs. Several citizens have reported losing thousands of dollars through such scams. The anonymity of the Internet means that the U.S. ...

 Getting girls to feel an attraction for you - that isn't simply based on your looks, the contents of your wallet or the car you've got parked outside - can be really tricky.  After all, how are men supposed to know what each girl's looking for without asking?  If you DID ask, you know your chances would be small, after all, no girl wants a guy approaching her with needy questions - she wants a confident man who somehow seems to know what she's after and can give it to her.  So how do you do it?  How do you become the man that effortlessly exudes confidence, dominance and presence, without turning into an arrogant poser or desperate wannabe? The answer lies in psychology. It's at the heart of all persuasive social situations, and absolutely central to the success of any guy's attempts at attracting and seducing women. Quite simply, by learning the CORRECT psychological rules, principles and tactics, any guy can play and WIN at the game of seduction. For exampl...

 Occasionally, a bad date happens to one person at a certain point in his or her life. One should do some assessment before writing off the person for life. No sparks at all? Too nervous to open any topic? Is he or she being rude? Here are some things that you can do. How to deal with a bad date? Or when you are the one who's about to make it bad...   1. If you are feeling too nervous opt for a date over coffee. You will have less time fidgeting due too overnervousness since after finishing your coffee you can easily bid your date a quick "ta-ta".   2. There is no excuse for a date that is obnoxious and rude. Walk away Renee.   3. You and your date are not on the same wavelength? Endure the date, maintain your composure and leave politely. If your date asks for an extension, say an after meal drink, you can always politely (again) say no.   4. If you unintentionally insult your date, simply apologize then move on. If your insult is not that severe, your date mig...

 Cyberlove. Millions of singles worldwide are enjoying this fairly new phenomena. Online dating services are connecting singles worldwide on a daily basis, and it seems a growing trend that a lot of offline singles are missing out on. Joining an online dating service is a very straight forward exercise. The most difficult part would be choosing your dating service. With so many available, and so many categories, choosing the right one can be the difference of being in cyberlove or cyberlust. Online dating services cater for religions, age groups, body types, sexual preferences and many more categories. If a single happens to fit into one of these niches they will find thousands of like minded singles ready to meet someone just like them. This will benefit a single much more than just joining the most popular dating service out there.  If a single is deep into their religion they will be able to share their beliefs instantly with other singles. This saves time either before a r...

 A recent survey revealed that fifty two percent of men date for intimacy. Men are looking for that “someone” to get romantically involved with and a potential mate for life.  There are women that a man should avoid dating. Here are signs to watch out for: 1. The overly feminist. This type of woman assumes and believes man is the cause of all the pains and suffering of a society. It is her strong belief that women are much more intelligent than men and are capable of doing things “the correct way”. Men would not want to spend some time with these types of women, anything that a man will do will always be negative to them. They can never be pleased by a man. 2. The material girl. She is just after the money! These types of women are “high maintenance”. They not just expect, but often demand that a man should finance all her luxuries in life. To her, the man has the responsibility to pay for dinners, drinks, trips, jewelry, flowers etc. while she absolutely feels compulsion or g...

 So you haven't been out on a date in awhile and you're nervous that you'll do or say the wrong thing.  Or perhaps your last date was such a disaster that it should have had a rating 5 on the weather channel.  Getting nervous before a date is understandable.  Will they be attracted to you?  Are you both on the same wavelength?  Will you be able to control your mouth from saying something your brain knows is stupid?   Mistakes usually occur when stress levels are high.  And lets face it dating is a stressful endeavour.  The best thing you can do before a date is…relax…I know that is easier said than done but here are 8 easy ways to chillout before your dates arrives so that you actually have a good time on your date without any jittery mis-steps.   1.  Meditate or if that sounds too mystical just close your eyes and focus on your breathing, feel it as it goes in and feel it go out.  Can you feel it flow through your no...

 The problem with recently divorced single parents  is that are waiting too long to start dating  again, complaining they are oh, so busy. The real  reason is their fears, because their previous  situation was usually so ugly, they don't have a  strong enough ego to let rejections roll off  their back.  Even if they are starting to date, in most cases  are doing this for the wrong reasons. Some single  parents think they are in competition with their  ex, particularly if they were left for a younger  partner. They also might be playing a game to  prove to the ex that they are desirable by dating  as many people as possible. In a nutshell, don't  date for emotional revenge, to allay feelings of  loneliness or to prove your desirability to  others.  After a divorce, both parties are tented to  change partners almost every week or month and  are not in the mood to compromise with somebody....

 If you are looking for love and marriage abroad, it is very simple to get it right, believe me! There are thousands of honest, sincere women who will be genuinely interested in YOU! But after you are meeting a nice girl that seems to be right for you make sure the person you are talking to is FOR REAL. Frankly, looking for a partner abroad is not any different than any other search - search for a house, a second-hand car, or whatsoever, in one simple yet important detail: there will always be people that will try to take advantage of you. The perception that you have built about dating scams can make you be cautious and suspicious all the time! That is even worse. Chances are you will make the same mistakes as other guys and destroy what was a really good and honest relationship - just because of being paranoid about scammers. But what if I tell you that there are some specific signs that can make you  solve the enigma of sincerity in your relationship and find out that the p...

 If you have spend some time talking online, you know there are some question that women ask you all the time. How to answer to these question to make sure that you are getting her attention and interest? Just try using next lines: 1.When she is questioning you about your marital status just say: “Well, my dog hates the way I do coffee, it hopes I will find someone else that will make him a coffee every morning” 2. What is your age? “I am a little child... when I am sleeping, a mature man when I am making decisions and an exploring teenager when I have the opportunity to talk with an interesting woman” 3. Do you have children?  It is a simple question to reply but you can say more than yes/no, and earn some points. So.. If you Do Have Kids you can answer “Oh yes, I have...(a 2 years old boy), he  is a nice kid, and he is very responsible for my haircut.” :)  If you don't have kids: “No, I don't have kids yet. I'm still looking for the woman willing to take the risk o...

 There is no doubt that online dating can put you in touch with some great people and you may just end up finding your Prince Charming or Dream Girl as the case may be. However, online dating is not without its risks. This is why I have put together these online dating safety tips which will help you to have a fun experience, while keeping yourself out of harms way. 1. Your safety lesson in online dating starts from your profile itself. Make sure not to reveal exact personal details (real name, telephone numbers, street addresses etc) in your profile for everyone to see. For the first few weeks you should communicate with other daters only through the message system that is available on the sites. This personal messaging system keeps your name and contact details anonymous so that you can get to know the other person without revealing your true identity. Once you feel you know someone well enough, you can then disclose your personal details and also set up a date. And in case you d...

 Look around the (online dating) web and you will notice that the online dating scene is a lot focused on single Russian women and other East European women. The reason that in particular women from these countries are looking for a foreign partner is generally known, but will not be discussed in this article. But I do like to give you some tips when you must NOT dating or contacting Russian women. Let me give you 6 valuable tips: Tip 1. If you are a single man and you don’t want to be single anymore then you probably already are using the Internet as a source to find a new partner. But fun dating, chatting and ‘playing around’ with people from your own culture or country is something different then being determined to find specific a Russian woman with the one and only purpose: to marry her. This means traveling to Russia (to meet her), possible language barrier, learning about the Russian (women) culture, be prepared for unexpected situations, like money expenses, possible scam s...

 Sure you're nice - most people are.  So what? This quality is one that reflects your feeling  that you're a man worth knowing and you deserve  women's attention.  But do you really believe  that women pay attention to what you think you  deserve? Being nice is not enough. Okay, fine, you're nice,  but you also need to be interesting. Unfortunately, "nice guy" equates to wimp/dweeb  in too many people's minds.  Believe me: you don't have to be a jerk to  attract women!   As a matter of fact, women did not like jerks or  aggressive men. They are attracted by challenging,  interesting guys. That's all.  You can be  interesting, challenging and still a nice man. Be  yourself but keep in mind these significant  things that can make the difference between a  regular nice guy and a successful one: 1. Women LOVE a man who is a CHALLENGE... the  quickest and easiest way I've ever heard to le...